HIKIKOMORI

 Social humans, are creatures that need each other's help with each other, for a place of dependence on life in the world.
Without social interaction, it definitely makes us very difficult to do something.
For example, when we have friends we will definitely ask for help from them, such as asking to be taught a lesson, asking for a solution or something in part.
Imagine if we don't have friends to interact with ??
So will hard to can interaction with other people. Right ?

But the fact is not with Japan.
We know that Japan is an advanced country in East Asia. The country with the nickname "Rising Sun" is in fact a country that is very difficult to socialize especially getting friends.
From the data that I have obtained at Tribun.new there are around 32, 64 Percent of Japanese People Don't Have Friends.
Woww why did it happen ??

Although the country of Japan is a developed country, Japan has suffered a setback in the social sector in return for its progress. Psychological diseases haunt Japanese society because of the increasingly high stress level. For people who cannot survive, they will take shortcuts by leaving their own lives with the assumption that the sooner they escape the pressure. In addition, Progress also changes the way people interact. In addition there are also people who have initially withdrawn from association, these people have been dubbed
  "Hikikomori"
Hikikimoro is a Hikikomori derived from the word withdraw. Most hikikomori are men, even though there are also women. The reasons for this are not very clear, but most people blame family factors, where the loss of a father figure because he worked from morning till late at night until he had no time to interact with his child, and a mother who was too spoiled for her child (probably because of the number of Japanese family children) that's a little). Academic pressure at school, school bullying, and video games in Japan are incredibly tempting.
So conclusion of  Hikikomori is a social phenomenon that occurs in Japan where a teenager / adult withdraws from social life by shutting himself down all day at home

A. Causes of the school environment

Usually the factors that most influence hikikomori are social life at school, such as:

1. Often bullied

If you are a comic reader or a loyal audience of anime, you must be familiar with the theme of bullying in Japan. If someone is often bullied, especially until accompanied by physical torture, then he will try to escape from his school environment.

2. Academic value standards

Japan is a country that has fostered competition since school. From elementary school to college, Japanese students strive to achieve the best grades in order to graduate. It's no stranger if a student can go home late because of studying at a tutoring institution. Especially for children who want to face a passing test and want to go to higher school.

In some extreme cases, a child can commit suicide if he cannot meet his family's expectations. From morning to evening they will study at school, late in the evening they have to study again at the tutoring place. Even if you don't commit suicide.

3. Test failure

Who likes to fail? But failure to enter a favorite school can be a source of depression until it causes hikikomori activity. Failing on the final exam is also often feared until finally a hikikomori actor doesn't want to go to school or continue his education.

B. Causes of yourself

Excessive stress and depression is one sign that someone needs help. Hikikomori is an overreaction that can be prevented, you should immediately help your acquaintance to consult an expert if you see any symptoms leading to a hikikomori.

C. Causes of social environment

Some hikikomori practitioners feel they have no trust in people (lost faith in humanity), this usually occurs because of the rejection and various expectations that do not match the thinking with the reality that exists.

Here are some reasons why foreigners are very difficult to make friends with Japanese people