4 Things That Ruin Japanese Friendship

Japan is one of the countries famous for its inhabitants who are friendly and very obedient to applicable laws. Besides being obedient to the law, Japanese people are also residents who like to work hard and never waste their time.

Although friendly, the Japanese population is also like other residents of the country who will be annoyed or angry when someone do something that can break their friendship.

Some unwanted things can happen in friendship. Fear of losing, even between friends, no doubt can make friendships become unhealthy. So, to keep your friendship healthy, find out some negative things that can disrupt friendship relationships

1. Cynical

Although honesty is important in friendship, if communication comes in a cynical, disparaging, or even painful way, then something is wrong in friendship. Communicate with each other honestly and openly, and with mutual respect. If you find your friend consistently continuing to "attack" you with the comments that knock you down, there is a possibility that he feels uncomfortable with you or with himself. Cornering you makes him feel better.

2. Selfish

There will be times, you need your friends just to tell stories or ask for help. However, if your friendship always revolves around the life of your friend and his needs, it means he only cares about what happens to him. Friendship should give and receive.

3. Alwys negative Thinking.

Think again if the basis of your friendship is due to the similarity of your destiny, for example because you feel resentful of work or company. Or have similarities in negative things, for example like to talk about other people. This will not work well, and is not a good foundation for your friendship. Friendship must have positive strength in it.

4.Always judge.

Judgment in friendship can undermine friendship, self-confidence, as well as your trust in friends. Your friends must be able to accept your decisions, views, or needs, and not be forced to impose their views and perceptions as the most correct. A good friend must let yourself be honest with yourself.

Komentar

Posting Komentar

Postingan populer dari blog ini

Friendship Symbols in Japan

Gambar
Hey Guys. Welcome back to my blog. Topic for today is About Friendship Symbols in Japan. We know, There are many different symbols that connote friendship — from interlinked hearts to friendship arrows and other symbols originating from all over the world. Friendship is one of the most divine relationships on earth. It carries the essence of all other relations. A friend can be caring like a mother, strict like a father, possessive like a brother, affectionate like a sister and shower loads of love like a lover. In fact, life is incomplete without friends. For the longest time, symbols have been a way of expressing friendship. Below are some of these symbols used and given to friends. 1. Chrysanthemums Japanese use these dainty flowers (or “Kikus,” as they are called) as a gift for friends. This flower has been a symbol for friendship in Japan culture for many years. Close friends exchange Chrysanthemums for representing virtue and their tight friendship. While the flower g...
Baca selengkapnya

Some Tips for Making Friends in Japan

Gambar
We know that Japan is a highly developed country in Asia. In fact, we also know that Japanese people have a tendency to spend their time learning and rarely to communicate between other communities. This is what makes Japanese people have great knowledge in creating extraordinary objects. so it is very difficult for us (other countries) to make friends with Japanese people and even communicate with them. So I'll give Some these  tips if you want create a real friendship with Japanese. 1.Join a circle/club at university           Universities usually have a variety of societies/clubs, such as football, tennis, golf, English, and music. Most of them hold meetings or parties regularly and they normally have a drinking party for new members, which is a great chance to get socialized with other members. 2. Learn Japanese traditional culture Japan has many very unique cultures, such as, Geisha, Nagoya Festival, kimono festival, sumo, and m...
Baca selengkapnya

Gift-giving Opportunities to Impress Your Japanese Friends (girl)

Gambar
If you find yourself hoping for presents on your next birthday in Japan, or maybe even (Oh how thoughtful!) a surprise birthday party, you may be slightly disappointed. Birthday presents are often given only to close friends, lovers, or family in Japan. But before you start feeling lonely and friendless, you need to know a few things about how the Japanese feel about gift-giving. 1. 年賀状 (New Year’s Postcard) Try and send your Japanese friends a 年賀状 nengajo, or “New Year’s postcard”. Remember that mountain of cards you get on Valentine’s or Christmas? The Japanese send all their acquaintances New Year’s Day postcards in a similar manner. When to give: Send your card so that it arrives BY New Year’s Day. Do not make the mistake of sending your postcard late December because by that time Japan Post will be swamped with the whole country’s population times the number of each person’s friends and relatives’ New Year’s postcards. Who to give: Send one to just about everyone you co...
Baca selengkapnya